If you are a Christian parent, you probably hope to pass on your faith to your children. You pray that the faith in Jesus you share with them will impact their hearts so deeply that they follow Jesus for their entire lives and into eternity. Research has shown five key factors that can help create the best environment for that to happen. One of those factors is serving together as a family.
As Christians, we know we are supposed to serve others and share the love of Jesus with our neighbors. But did you know that serving your community in the Name of Jesus’ is also an important part of disciplining your children? Family Service Projects help us model obedience to Jesus while building our children’s faith.
Josh Denhart of KidminScience.com writes, “Children who serve WITH their families in a faith-based ministry seemed more likely to stay connected to Christ and the church.”
Ministry can be in or out of the church but tying it to your family’s faith is important.
Another one of those key factors to helping your children own their faith and continue to follow Jesus for their whole lives is trusting children with responsibility. This seems to go hand-in-hand with family service projects.
When we serve as families, we can give our children developmentally appropriate responsibilities while being there with them to support and encourage them.
Matthew 24:45 says, “A faithful, sensible servant is one to whom the master can give the responsibility of managing his other household servants and feeding them.” Let’s use these service opportunities to nurture faithful, sensible servants.
In Matthew, Jesus tells a parable and says, “And the King will say, ‘I tell you the truth, when you did it to one of the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were doing it to me!'” (Matthew 25:40, NLT).
When we serve others with kindness, mercy, love, and compassion, we do these things as to Jesus himself. Service doesn’t have to be big or elaborate to be meaningful.
You don’t have to travel around the world to serve together as a family in the name of Jesus. Serving together can look like picking up trash at a local park, donating to local charities, praying for your church’s missionaries, or volunteering with Christian non-profits.
It could also look like offering your family’s unique gifts in small but meaningful ways to those around you.
Here are eight ideas you might want to try:
While these ideas can show love and compassion for those in your community in the Name of Jesus, the real impact on your kids happens in your conversations. In the way your family talks, laughs, and shares together.
As you decide how and where to serve, model inviting the Holy Spirit into your decision-making. As you prepare or create model intentionality and sacrifice. As you travel to your locations, model praying for God to receive the glory and His love to be made known. As you finish your work, model gratitude for the privilege of serving God and others.
Almost anything done with love, compassion, and prayer can serve your community and glorify God.
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